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From the Other Side of the Edge….
If You Want Them to “Stop Hatin’ ”, …then …Stop Hatin’ !!
By Joe Facinoli

This has now, truly and officially, gone from the ridiculous to the perverse. 

Last week, President Obama, in his best and full flight campaign mode, played to a giddy and clueless crowd of supporters in Kansas City, by saying that the Republicans in Congress needed to “…Stop Hatin’ ” on him, and should instead, …actually get something done (that he approved of, …of course).  

Replete with all the pop and hip-hop phrases and references he could muster, and in his now too familiar, guiltless and very un-Presidential, on-the-stump style (read:  jive talkin’), he cajoled and chastised his adversaries for spending more time “hatin’ ” him, than effectively serving the American people (in ways, …of course, that he thinks they should).  

Well, …just gag me with a spoon (my own “pop” reference, …an old one, but it still works).

And when I heard this latest absurdity, …I threw up a little, in my mouth (another one, …not so old, and definitely still works).

But if I were to note that the President’s accusations amounted to nothing more than “the Pot, calling the Kettle black”  (a very old pop saying, that even so, I’m not ashamed to still use), would I then be called a racist ??

In this post-modern, post-common sense, post-reality time and culture? …you can bet your sweet patooty, that I would.    In a heartbeat, or a New York minute, …whichever would be faster.   


Alright, …enough attempts at cutesy pop sayings and references (do you hear me, …Mr. Prez?), let’s think clearly about this nonsense for a bit.   

The man has a legacy of inactivity and non-leadership, of ignoring laws, customs, international partnerships, and the Constitution, and of creating sheer and utter disasters, unmatched in Presidential history, …and he wants us to “…stop hatin’ ” HIM !!    And every step he makes, and breath he takes ??!!?

That’s simply the height of political arrogance, rhetoric, and stupidity, for thinking that could just slip right by, unnoticed, and unchallenged.    

But that’s our man (and I didn’t say “boy”).   Common sense, facts, and reality, never got in the way of a good crowd thumping campaign speech, …old school preacher style.  

Truth can take a beating, …as long as the sound bite comes off good, …and very slick.  


But let’s take a look at this, from a psychological point of view.  

Why does he want so badly, for us to “…stop hatin’ ” him?

Is he, in fact, clueless to all around him?    Or just viciously arrogant?   

Or, …very likely, …just an insecure little boy (sorry, but I had to use that here), who’s caught in the wrong place, at the wrong time, …and knows all too well, that he’s in way over his head. 

Unfortunately, it’s probably some of all of these sad choices.

And it doesn’t help that he’s so full of hate, himself.   Or maybe, that’s how he recognizes it, and why he’s so afraid of that emotion, coming at him, from the outside.   

After all, he hates a lot of things, …and hates an even greater number of people.  

Politically, of course he hates Republicans, and even non-throne sniffing Democrats.    They are not only his adversaries, but simply put, they are in his way.  

And so is the Constitution, which he hates so much that he pretends it doesn’t exist, …because it just doesn’t let him do whatever he thinks he should be doing (which, btw, has nothing to do with what he should be doing for the American people).  

And he hates Congress (at least when the GOP is in control of part of it), because he is supposed to work with them, and treat them as equals within the government, …when we all know that he thinks he has no equal, and that he can’t be bothered by having to work alongside of anyone.  

He hates the military, …because they are always making him take a stand on something, …which he really hates, because then he opens himself up for people to criticize him (and maybe hate him), and he loses some of his political and voting base.   

And you guessed it, he hates that, …almost more than anything.  

He hates big business, and rich people too, unless they are giving him money, which a lot of rich folks do.   And that creates a dilemma for him:   how to take stacks of cash from the very people he is jealous of, and whom he hates so much, because of their big stacks of cash.  

And, for balance, he hates poor people as well, because they are not only a nuisance obligation, but mainly, because he’s stuck with doing something for them, and really,  …he doesn’t care a whit about them.


But personally, he also has troubles.    For instance, I believe that he hates white people.   

Because he doesn’t know what to do with them, nor how to relate to them, owing to his conflicted family history, and because of his political upbringing and tutelages, which told him that all whites were overbearing and bad, as least politically.  

His mother was white, and all but left him after a time (no doubt some hate there), but his grandmother (who raised him in Hawaii, and loved him) was also white, and small minds have a hard time with such things.  

By his own hand, he hates his father.   Or admires him, …or misses that he never knew him, and hates him for that, because his Dad (who was black) deserted him, and at such a young age.   

Trust me, lesser conflicts have created bigger problems.    This kind of thing stays with someone, …for their whole life.   

And probably, he even hates Michelle, …for being stronger than he is (both physically and emotionally), and because she’s probably smarter, and definitely because he’s afraid of her.  (his own words!)

And if that thing was “arranged”, as some contend, or if other rumors about her are true, …then that would really suck, and one could understand THAT hate (unless he was into that sort of thing).  


In my opinion, perhaps the biggest problem here is, …that he hates being President.     Or at least, he’s very bored by it.  

He loves the trappings, and the bennies, to be sure, …but absolutely hates the responsibilities, and the need to get along with people he wouldn’t give two cents for, if he wasn’t obligated to try to work with them.  

Steady, everyday work only bores and aggravates him, …and he hates that.  


Martin Luther King, Jr. (a black man, who had more than enough reasons to hate white people, but who found a way to work with them, for the better) once said:  

“Darkness cannot drive out darkness: …only Light can do that.   Hate cannot drive out hate: …only Love can do that.”

And some strong, smart, determined, and non-vindictive, actual leadership, …wouldn’t hurt either. 

Let’s hope our man/boy steps up to all of that, …in the coming weeks and months (but not holding my breath). 


Joe Facinoli
-Joe can be reached at:   joefacinoli@gmail.com
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