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"Hooah" from Fort Benning:  The end, or is it?
By Brandy Lewis

We are driving home from Fort Benning, Georgia right now.  So much has happened in the last two weeks and it's time I update everyone on the happenings of Benning. It has been the best of times, worst of times and most trying of times. This is the conclusion to his basic training.

Finally, I received the much awaited details on Honor Hill.  What was suppose to be the ending to a great journey fell short of everyone's expectations.  After a solid week out in the field, Cade made his way up the Stairway to Heaven which was much harder than had been anticipated.  Then, the Drill Sergent broke the news to them that another platoon was already at Honor Hill.  They marched to an unknown, insignificant area and received their crossed rifles.  Cade states, "We did the ceremony at some training site but we all knew it would never feel like Honor Hill."  I had told everyone I knew that my son was marching to Honor Hill on that day.  To hear he didn't get to go broke my heart.  This is such a right of passage in the Infantry, I felt my son's pain.  In the end, he still received his crossed rifles which he writes is all that matters.

It was now time for the Turning Blue Ceremony.  Tears filled my eyes as I watched my son march front row, in his dress blue uniform across the field.  A few words were said and then a designated person came down and pinned the blue braid on the soldier's right shoulder to designate them as Infantry.  Cade had choosen his dad to do the honors.  I stood near by and took plenty of pictures of the ceremony.  Pride gleamed from my husband's face and everyone had tears in their eyes.  It was a very proud moment to say Cade was now in the Infantry.

That night his grandparents came into town for graduation the following day.  They took us out to Cade's choice resturant...Longhorn!  We had a nice evening catching up and Cade looked so dignified in his dress blue uniform.

The following day was graduation at the National Infantry Museum.  There were three companies graduating, almost  700 men.  During the ceremony they had a demonstration of infantry with guns going off, smoke and soldiers making their way across the field.  This was set to dramatic music and showed a few skills the soldiers had learned.  There were speakers, awards and finally the men marched across the field three deep so everyone could see their soldier.  Cade was on the end and we had found him right away.  After he marched by us, he proceeded off the field and straight to the museum where the soldiers all had their duffel bags.  He grabbed his three duffel bags and off to the airborne bus he went.  We saw him around 7:30 that night and congratulated him.  He had moved right into the airborne barracks and had the weekend to spend with us.  He still had to be back at night but we had long days with him.  Cade was his old self again.  He was wrestling with his sisters, listening to loud obnoxious music and all the little things that made him Cade.

I miss him already.

I started this column for a couple of different reasons.  I was so incredibly proud of my son and found his stories interesting and I wanted to share them.  I felt there were veterans out there that would enjoy the stories of a young man off to basic training.  I also was feeling lost and felt there were other military moms out there that could relate with my side of the stories.  What has come out of this experience is something I couldn't of anticipated.  I became what I like to refer to as #ARMYSTRONG.  I feel like a super hero where the bad just bounces off of me.  I don't go into my son's room and cry anymore.  I face whatever is coming my way.  Like I wrote Cade probably 100 times, "take it one day at a time".  If you have a bad day, you can choose to wake up the next day and say, today is going to be a good day not a bad one.  I also told him to be 'Positive' and 'Strong'.  I think he did a good job of staying positive by his ability to have a tough training day and come back to the barracks and laugh it off.  He stayed strong by waking up each day without complaining and facing whatever the army had to throw at him.

Cade and I have both grown in the last 14 weeks.  I knew he would grow more mature but I didn't expect myself to change so much.  It was in the end a very positive experience.  I would like to thank my followers for going through this with me.

So where I go from here I'm not sure.  Cade has just started Airborne school and already there is drama.  He failed his PT test to get into airborne the first day but was allowed a second chance on the next day, which he passed. 

He has stated that now he has his phone he will not be writing me anymore.  I preferred to continue writing but kids today and their phones!  I would like to write an article when he graduates from airborne to fill in everyone on his adventures.  Then there will be the big move to Italy.  That sounds exciting to me.  So keep your eye out for an occasional article and once again, thank you for reading!  #ARMYSTRONG #HOOAH


 
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