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"Hooah" from Fort Benning:  Family Weekend!
By Brandy Lewis

The day couldn't come fast enough and a 12 hour drive separated me from my soldier.  It had been over eleven weeks since I had seen my son and I was eager with anticipation.  We arrived later on Thursday night and went to Fort Benning to get our family pass so we would be ready Friday morning.  It would be a restless night as my mind would not shut down.

I had read that no matter how early you are, you still won't be early enough. So, we left 2 1/2 hours early for a ten minute drive.  Getting to base was easy but once on base the GPS said it was a 30 minute drive to where he was.  We started on our way, driving 15 mph with Army trainees running on every road.  Just when I thought we were lost, we saw our road coming up.  Once we got a little closer we noticed the road was closed. I could practically touch the road we needed to be on.  We turned around and back we went.  We saw a military police vehicle parked to the side so we asked him for directions.  He didn't know how we had gotten so far away from our destination.  After some directions, we were off again.  Finally, we arrived.  Luckily, they had moved the family briefing forward 1 hour so we were on time.  We were lost 3 more times on base until we finally got it down.  We listened to the family briefing just waiting to see Cade.  It ended and everyone headed outside.  On a brick pillar was a sign that said War Boys Platoon One, so we took a seat there. 

Finally, they were released and the soldiers came out yelling and formed their block platoons.  It was very impressive and it brought tears to my eyes.  Four platoons in a covered brick area screaming at the top of thier lungs was overwhelming.  From there, every move was done together as one.  They said the Pledge of Alligiance and The Soldier's Creed.  Then they asked a parent to come up for the Turning Green Ceramony and place the the Army patch on their soldier's left arm.  After this was done, the soldier in training was now considered a United States Army Soldier.   It was a honor to place Cade's Army patch.  I jumped up to find Cade and gave him a big hug.  I placed that patch on his left arm and told him how proud of him I was.  My feelings had come a long way from the day he told me he wanted to join the Army.  Next, his dad and sisters came up and I took a seat.  Finally, the soldiers were released to us.  We all stared at his patch and told him how much he had grown.  Then he was ready to get out of there and so were we.  He was hungry and the first place we passed was Waffle House and that sounded good to him.  After brunch, we went to the mall shopping.  He bought boots, socks and comfy underware and we all bought sweatshirts and tee shirts.  Then, we went to two other  Army stores buying a few things at each one.  When we were done, we went back to his barracks and waited 2 1/2 hours until it was time to come back.  We weren't going to chance getting lost again and getting him back late.  We had a wonderful day with our son.

The next day started with pick up at 7am.  Although it was suppose to be a secret, he had access to a Juul.  We ended up with a car full of soldiers hitting this Juul and getting their nicotine fix.  If a drill sergent had seen this who knows how extreme his punishment would be.  Here they were, standing in a line to get in my car.

Once we left, we went to get Cade's favorite breakfast, a McDonalds McGriddle.  He ordered three.  Next, we were off to the Infanty museum.  Everyone enjoyed that very much but Cade was ready to go swimming so we left.  The afternoon was spent by the pool with delivery pizza. Just a lazy afternoon spent as a family.

That evening when we returned, Cade introduced us to his battle buddies.  Then, what happened next no one saw coming.  He got down on one knee and asked Lauren (his girlfriend) to marry him.  She said yes! His comrades congradulated him and so did his family.  We are all very fond of Lauren and they make an excellent couple.  They are both young so a wedding is still a couple of years away but we were really excited for them both.

That night when we returned Cade, there were many soldiers that were late.  The company got smoked!  They were doing push ups and yelling, "Hurry up, we're waiting on you!"  This went on for a while. Finally, the soldiers were released to go to their barracks.  We heard a pounding sound and looked up and saw Cade beating on a window waving good bye and we all waved back. It had been another facinating day!

The last day we went to Denny's for breakfast.  He ate like it had been days.  Next, we went to the mall to buy him running shoes. We wanted to go to a movie but didn't have time to get him back to base on time so we made the decision to swim again all day.  When the day wrapped up we went to a chinese buffet for dinner. It was a pleasent day just laying around talking and telling stories.  Cade told us about his training and a lot of goofing off stories.

We were back on base just with enough time to take a few pictures and watch them get in formation.  The D.S. went soldier to soldier looking at everything they had bought only taking away a fragrent deoderant which wasn't allowed.  They pulled out their weapons and had 2 soldiers stand guard.  Everyone was allowed to go upstairs and get their water packs and that's when we left.  
    We get to the other side of the building and there was that familiar pounding again.  Cade was waving good bye.  On our way out we saw them march to the chow hall as they sang the army song.  It was quite the sight.  I was proud of Cade.  He had made it through Basic Training and was an Army Soldier. 

That night we went back to the mall to pick up a few things we had seen and headed to the hotel room.  We packed in silence and went to bed early because there was a somber feeling in the room.  There was a twelve hour drive waiting for us the next day.  The three days of family weekend had ended in a blink of an eye. Monday we returned the 2020 Corola that had been our rental car.  I felt denied because all the kids wanted to ride with dad in the new car.  I had expected Cade to ride with me, his mom, everywhere.  I admit I'm a Cade hog so it was good that he got to spend some time with his dad.  Next month at grauation, I will remember to drive the rental car!  The trafffic was good on the way home and it had been a succuessful trip.

Now he has three weeks of black phase for AIT, Advanced Infantry Training. One week of gold phase and then he has officially graduated and has the Turning Blue Ceremony where he earns his blue cord on his dress infantry uniform.  Then it's off to three weeks of paratrooper training and then hopefully home before he goes to Italy.  Cade has been through the hardest mental and physical part of his training but still has several weeks of training left.  Luckily, we will get to see him a couple of times before he is sent to Itay for three years.  We are so proud of our Army Soldier! #ARMYSTRONG


 
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